How many of these mistakes women make in bed are you guilty of? Improve your sex life now by taking control of things in the bedroom and putting a stop to these common sex mistakes.
Mistake one: Assuming he knows what you want
Assuming that he knows exactly how to satisfy you, without you ever having told him may leave you bitterly disappointed when he doesn’t. Remember: everyone is different and responds to different things in bed, so either drop a few encouraging hints while you’re having sex, or, for a less subtle approach, have a conversation about what turns you on — make sure you start off by complementing him on what you do enjoy and don’t forget to ask him what he likes, too!
Mistake two: Expect to have an orgasm every time from intercourse
Did you know less than a third of women will have an orgasm during intercourse? Some of us need extra stimulation to climax during intercourse, and the rest of us only orgasm through manual or oral stimulation. So don’t worry, it’s perfectly normal, and even better, there’s something you can do about it. A good way to show your partner how to get you off is to do just that — a demonstration will not only be educational, it’ll probably also be a huge turn on.
Mistake three: Focusing too much on experience
This can go two ways. Telling your partner about all your other partners may dent his confidence and make him worry that he won’t measure up. On the other hand, being less experienced is nothing to be ashamed of — in fact it can make you more open-minded and more willing to talk about what each other wants. Honesty is certainly the best policy, but leave that conversation for when you’re out of the bedroom.
Mistake four: Being afraid to initiate sex
This is the worst of all the mistakes women make in bed because it actually stops you from having sex! We’ve heard it for years that men think about sex more than women, but in today’s day and age, we’re going to go ahead and assume it’s a pretty equal desire. Initiating sex with your partner will convey a sexy sense of spontaneity, and it’s almost a guarantee that he won’t turn you down.
Mistake five: Worrying what you look like
Worrying about what we look like is probably the most common of all the mistakes women make in bed. Confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac and when you’re in the heat of the moment, we promise that no one is worried about how flat your hair is or how smudged your make-up is. When you feel sexy, you ARE sexy, so do whatever you need to do to feel sexy — play some music, dim the lights, don stilettos and a feather boa…